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Good Question
Until We Meet Again
'Does the Bible teach that we will recognize our loved ones in heaven?'



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As the years pass, this question looms larger in my thinking. Last year, I attended three funeral services of godly saints who'd passed away. One was my 85-year-old father-in-law, whose exemplary life and witness is now just a cherished memory. For my wife, who loved her father dearly, this question is thus no idle theological speculation. Fortunately, the Bible speaks clearly to it.



The simple answer—yes—rests on two pillars of Christian belief. One is the blessed hope that we will see Jesus again (Titus 2:13). The other is the assurance that our present bodies will be raised from the dead, immortal (1 Cor. 15:12-57). Together, these pillars provide a basis for believing we will recognize our loved ones in heaven. After all, if we can recognize the Lord Jesus, possessing the perfectly restored and glorified bodies to do so, it follows that we will recognize other believers, including our loved ones.

But to give more biblical shape and substance to this answer, we must distinguish between our temporary dwelling in heaven (our "intermediate state") and our eternal home in the new heaven and new earth (our ultimate destiny). Consider the following two propositions.

First, when we die, we are consciously and immediately in the presence of our Savior in heaven.

The Bible is clear that after death, two literal destinies await all humanity: eternal life and eternal death (Rom. 6:23). Those who place their faith in Jesus Christ receive everlasting life. When a believer dies, her body remains in the grave, but her soul is consciously and immediately taken into the presence of Jesus. Our soul's immediate destiny is heaven, since Jesus himself ascended into heaven (Acts 1:11) and is presently there preparing dwelling places for us (John 14:1-3).

One passage that makes it clear we are conscious with Jesus after we die is Revelation 6:9-11. There the souls of tribulation martyrs in heaven ask the Lord how long it will be until their righteous blood is avenged. Apparently without resurrected bodies yet, they are still fully conscious, having speech and recollection.

That we are immediately with Jesus after death is implicit in at least two passages: Jesus' words to the dying thief, "Today you will be with me in paradise" (Luke 23:43), and Paul's conviction that "we would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord" (2 Cor. 5:8). Neither Jesus nor the apostle foresaw centuries of separation while our bodies lay in graves, awaiting the final resurrection. Rather, they anticipated an immediate reunion!

We can anticipate that as well. Though without our physical bodies, we will be able to commune with Jesus, with Abraham, and with believing loved ones who have preceded us to heaven.

Second, when Jesus returns, we will receive our resurrected bodies and live with him forever in the new heaven and new earth.

The cornerstone of all eschatological hope is the Second Coming of Jesus Christ. At that moment, not before, believers in Jesus will receive their resurrected, immortal bodies: The dead in Christ will be raised and living saints will be caught up ("raptured") to meet Christ (1 Thess. 4:15-17). All who see Christ face to face shall, in that moment, become like him (1 John 3:2).

Our resurrection bodies are not merely immortal duplicates of our present ones. Consider Paul's analogy of the wheat seed (1 Cor. 15:35-38). A mortal body is like the seed, while an immortal body is like the full-grown plant. Both are physical, with an intrinsic continuity between the two. But what a difference between the seed and the plant in appearance, in attribute, and in potential! If we presently have the capacity to recognize our loved ones, that ability will be magnified, not lessened, in the immortal state.





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Raymond Takashi Swenson   Posted: October 23, 2007 12:22 PM
I agree with everything you have set out here. It is completely consistent with the beliefs of my church--the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints ("Mormons"). With respect to your concluding questions, we Latter-day Saints believe additionally that it is possible for us to be united in marriage for eternity, and to also be linked forever to both our parents and our children. That belief places a very different complexion on our marital and family relationships in the here and now, and it is the driving force behind the search for family history records, which can now be accessed via the Internet and on computers at thousands of family history libraries open to the public. Whether you are Baptist or Buddhist, Catholic or Jew, African American or descendant of an Ellis Island immigrant, the largest single source of records on your own distant ancestors is there, and you are welcome to use it at no cost.

Daniel R. Lockwood   Posted: October 25, 2007 1:56 PM
Forgive my high rating of my own article, but I had to choose something! I appreciate readers' mention of recognizable biblical characters in a post-mortem setting: Samuel to Saul, Lazarus and Dives (the rich man), Moses and Elijah on the Mt. of Transfiguration. I chose rather to establish biblicially our connection to the resurrected Savior and ran out of room for those important examples. As to dualism, a certain form of dualism is, in my view, thoroughly biblical. You cannot read Jesus or Paul and not see it. It is not, of course, the dualism of Plato or the Gnostics, but let's not throw out the thriving baby of biblical theology with the dirty bathwater of Greek philosophical distortions.

Walter   Posted: October 25, 2007 2:16 AM
If true, then babies stay babies forever.

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