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Is It a Sin to Look Your Age?

How 'old is cold' stifles true beauty.

One of my pastors was preaching from Genesis 12, and he came to the part of the story where Abram and his wife Sarai head to Egypt during a time of famine. The account highlights the cowardly moment when the patriarch asks his attractive wife to tell the Egyptians that she is his sister, which was technically true, but to keep their marriage on the Q.T.

In an attempt to help the congregation imagine Sarai's arresting beauty, the pastor said, "Sarah is about 65 years old here, and most of us don't think about 65-year-olds as objects of beauty." He paused for a moment, giving us time to think about the Medicare recipients in our midst, then offered his thoughts about the phenomenon. "It could be that in the ancient world, they had different standards."

On behalf of older women everywhere: ouch.

Is it really so difficult for most of us to think of older women as desirable? Or are we simply so used to seeing the distorted cultural images of mature "hotness" that we simply don't know how to look past them to see true beauty?

The older icons of physical beauty in pop culture are frequently portrayed one of three ways: sexually assertive cougars, physically obsessed fitness instructors, and plastic surgery devotees. The message of these images? Simply, it is is a sin to look your age. If hotness is something to which we should all aspire, old is c-c-cold.

It takes time, money, and commitment, along with a socially acceptable measure of narcissism, to maintain that desirable young appearance. ...

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