Church Leadership
Bungee Cord Leadership: Leveraging Tension to Lead a Church Through Change
Tension doesn't have to stress us out. We can use it to our church’s advantage if we follow a few simple principles.

Leading a church through change is hard. Even when it’s necessary.

In the 23-plus years I’ve been serving at Cornerstone, I’ve learned one principle that has helped keep everyone, including me, open to necessary changes without feeling overwhelmed by them.

Here’s how it goes: I try to imagine that there’s a bungee cord or rubber band connecting us.

If I’m not asking for enough change, the band stays limp and there’s nothing to pull people. This produces passivity and ineffectiveness.

But if I get out too far ahead of them, it can snap. This produces directionless churches and lonely, frustrated leaders.

Staying in the zone between too little and too much tension is one of the most challenging tasks a leader faces.

They key is tension. Leaders need to keep just the right amount to pull people forward, without allowing the cord between them to break. Staying in the zone between too little and too much tension is one of the most challenging tasks a leader faces.

Especially over a long period of time.

Don’t Create Tension, But Learn to Leverage It Well

In my work with small church pastors, I’ve found that many of our complaints about a congregation not being open to necessary changes can often be traced back to either having too much or too little tension. Or bouncing wildly between the two.

As I’ve written before, people can handle change. What they can’t handle is surprise. And there’s nothing more surprising or discouraging than when a leader who hasn’t been challenging people at all suddenly demands too much change. This causes so much tension that the connection between leader and followers snaps. Suddenly, painfully and often permanently.

Leaders who guide people through big events, crises and changes have learned to leverage tension well. They’ve strengthened that cord and increased the congregation’s tolerance for tension, allowing for bigger change.

How to Strengthen the Cord

Leaders don’t need to create tension. There’s plenty in the world already. But we can leverage the existing tension to our, and the church’s advantage if we follow a few simple principles. And avoid some common mistakes.

First, some essential principles:

  • Lead with integrity. Every other leadership strength is an extension of this – and every weakness denies it.
  • Stay consistent over a long period of time
  • Be a listener so you know what they can handle
  • Keep regular tension, but allow for breaks from the tension (this is how muscles build strength, too)

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