Love is not blind; that is the last thing that it is. Love is bound; and the more it is bound the less it is blind.
G. K. Chesterton, Orthodoxy
The monstrosity of sexual intercourse outside marriage is that those who indulge in it are trying to isolate one kind of union (the sexual) from all the other kinds of union which were intended to go along with it and make up the total union. The Christian attitude does not mean that there is anything wrong about sexual pleasure, any more than about the pleasure of eating. It means that you must not isolate that pleasure and try to get it by itself, any more than you ought to try to get the pleasures of taste without swallowing and digesting, by chewing things and spitting them out again.
C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
For human beings, the more powerful need is not for sex per se but for relationship, intimacy, acceptance, and affirmation.
Rollo May, Love and Will
Sex is a wonderful symbol of intimacy. But as we know, symbols can be empty of real meaning.
Kathleen R. Fischer and Thomas N. Hart, Promises to Keep
The pain then is part of the pleasure now. That's the deal.
Joy Davidman in Shadowlands, on the eventual death of one partner in marriage
Marital love is more than eros. It has to do with how you treat each other when dishes need to be washed or garbage taken out, when misunderstandings arise and when one has transgressed against the other. Love is not the desire to be united with the other, but action on behalf of the other, and constancy in pursuit of his or her well-being.
Miroslav Volf, in The Christian Century
The reality is then that sex must not be depended upon to initiate intimacy. It can only grow out of it.
Elaine Storkey, The Search for Intimacy
It takes a long time for people to recognize their soul-mates when they have too limited an idea of who they are themselves.
Theodore Zeldin, An Intimate History of Humanity
Love … consists in this, that two solitudes protect and border and salute each other.
Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
Peter Lombard observed that Eve was not taken from Adam's head, because she was not intended to be his ruler, nor from his feet either, because she was not intended to be his slave, but from his side, precisely, because she was intended to be his companion.
Eileen Power, Medieval People
Good Food, the company of a good friend, what more could anyone desire?
The initial departures, mostly concentrated in the South, represent around 6 percent of the denomination—not as dramatic as the “schism” some feared.
And he teaches us to value diversity and individuality.
A new book records the reflections on church and state in China by the imprisoned pastor and other house church leaders.简体中文繁體中文
