In recent years, I’ve spent a lot of time ministering in churches of various sizes, styles, denominations and regions of the world.
Because most of my work involves resourcing small churches, a lot of that time has been spent in rural communities, agricultural areas and old-school congregations. Churches that will never be on anyone’s list of cutting-edge ministry.
You know, uncool churches.
I love uncool churches.
Here are four of the unexpected, sometimes counterintuitive truths I’m realizing after spending time with them:
1. A lot of uncool churches are doing genuine, contextual ministry
There’s an inherent prejudice in too much of church leadership today that favors the cool, the new, the relevant and the flashy.
Don’t get me wrong, I love new stuff. The small church I’ve served for the last 26+ years would probably rate high on most people’s cool spectrum. But being cool never won anyone to Jesus.
In many contexts, being cool is more of a turnoff than a help. Why? Because the community they minister in isn’t cool either. It’s not a Starbucks-Venti-soy-milk-latte community, it’s a Subway-sandwich-in-the-corner-of-the-gas-station town.
There are a whole lot of uncool, but loving churches doing vibrant, healthy and effective ministry in their (also uncool) communities.
2. We don’t understand their context as well as we think
Most church leaders, thought provokers and trendsetters have no idea what the typical small church needs.
Sorry (not sorry) to be so blunt, but it’s true.
We’re promoting ideas and resources that simply don’t fit in the context of a whole lot of churches – and we don’t even know we’re missing the mark. Instead, we too often assume that if what we’re doing isn’t working for them, the problem must be with them, not us.
3. We’re not giving them the credit they deserve
An old-school church is what’s needed in an old-school town. That’s their context and they fit it like a comfortable pair of overalls.
When a church is blessing the people they’re called to reach, they should be celebrated, not ridiculed for not being cool enough.
If we truly want to help all churches, we need to spend way more time listening to uncool churches. We need to worship with them, walk through their towns and appreciate their ministry context.