Worst. Year. Ever.
It must be. Social media says so.
Certainly, 2016 had its share of serious issues. From escalating problems in race relations, to horrific acts of terrorism, to the ravages of war in places like Syria, and more.
But that’s not what people are referring to. The two topics that dominate the Worst Year Ever talk? The American Presidential election and the deaths of celebrities.
America, we have a fame problem.
We’re at least as addicted to fame as we are to food, drugs, cars, sports, sugar and our electronic devices. (In fact, fame is a major driving factor behind that last one.)
Certainly, America isn’t the only nation obsessed with fame. But this year, we win.
Fame Elected a President
Take the election, for instance.
Go back about 18 months, when all the main presidential candidates were still in the race. What did the two final nominees have in common that the others didn’t?
Were they the most
They were the most famous.
Then Trump leveraged his fame better than Hillary leveraged hers. So he won.
Yes, that’s overly simplistic. Fame wasn’t the only reason for their nominations or for Trump’s win. But it’s naïve to think it wasn’t a major factor.
Fame is Driving Our Sense of Loss
And now, America seems to be in collective mourning over an excess of celebrity deaths. These are genuine and deep tragedies to the families and friends of the people who have died – particularly for the double loss being felt by the Reynolds/Fischer family.
But when I constantly hear laments of “there’s been so much death this year!”, and “can this nightmare please be over?”, it isn’t because people have faced similar losses in their own families. It’s grief over people they’ve never met, other than on a screen or through their music or books.
Of course it’s appropriate to feel a sense of loss over someone whose music, stories or other artistic expressions have touched us. That speaks to the importance that their work played in our collective lives.
But celebrity deaths are not more tragic than non-celebrity deaths.
When you ask most of the people who are lamenting the Worst Year Ever how their own lives went in 2016, most will tell you it was pretty good.
So why are we seeing 2016 so negatively? Because too many people have bought into the lie that famous lives matter more than non-famous ones. Including our own.