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People Are Leaving for the Cool New Church! Now What?
Seven steps to help us rediscover our passion and stop comparing ourselves to others.

2. Stop Viewing Other Churches as Competition

As bad as it is to see people leave our church for another church, it’s far worse to see them leaving the church entirely.

Yet, watching people leave the faith seems to bother some of us less than when they leave for the cool church. Could it be that one of the reasons they're leaving is because they're sensing those wrong priorities in us?

3. Don’t Try to Out-Cool Them

There are fewer things more pitiful than someone trying to be cool when they’re not. Or a church doing the same thing.

We had to stop trying to out-cool the cool churches to become the church Jesus wants us to be.

We had to stop trying to out-cool the cool churches to become the church Jesus wants us to be.

Some of our churches need to embrace our inner nerd.

4. Be Yourself – Only Better

One of the truly great wonders of heaven and earth is a church that knows who they are, and is doing what God has called them to do.

We don't get there by being something we're not supposed to be. Or settling for what we used to be.

So shake off those old cobwebs. Rediscover your vision and passion. And find out what that vision and passion should look like today.

Here's a hint: it won't look like it used to. Not because we're chasing the cool church. Or even trying to keep up with a changing culture. But because the God who never changes is always changing us.

5. Don’t Chase Church-Hoppers

No great church was ever built by appealing to church-hoppers. Yes, some big churches have been built that way. And some small churches have been kept small that way, too.

But great churches do something else. They find new blood.

6. Build Your Own Farm Team

Wherever you live, there are more than enough people to fill every church many times over. Even in the Bible Belt, there are always more people at home on Sunday morning than in all the churches combined.

We need to stop coveting other churches' members – even if they're our former members and get to work on the kingdom business of recruiting and building our own farm team.

You may know it as ministry and evangelism.

7. Put Your Passion Where It Belongs

There’s nothing wrong with being a cool church. As long as it’s a natural byproduct of magnifying Jesus, not the intentional selling point.

Are there some churches that emphasize cool at the cost of depth? Of course.

There are some near me, too.

But I have no idea who they are. We're too busy being what Jesus called us to be. I can't spare any precious time or energy worrying about what the cool church is doing.

Let's get passionate about being the church. When we do that, we'll leave Cool Church Cancer out in the cold.

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